Look, we get it.
When nerves kick in, excuses follow. Excuses not to show up for ourselves. Not to love ourselves. Not to prioritize ourselves. Life gets chaotic—between work, errands, and taking care of everyone else, it feels like there’s no time left. Understanding why you deserve a boudoir experience can help shift the focus back to yourself. Sometimes it feels more important to invest energy into your spouse, your kids, your job… literally anyone but you.
And then there are the classics:
“I need to lose 15 pounds first.”
“I just don’t have the money right now.”
These excuses? They’ve been heard before. But here’s what needs to be said: You deserve this. You can do this. And you are worthy of self-love right now.
“I Don’t Have Enough Time for Myself.”
Let’s be honest—most women aren’t great at slowing down. If your plate is full and your brain’s running on empty, this excuse probably hits hard. But if you’re not taking care of your mental health, how long until everything else starts falling apart?
Even I struggle with this. I’m guilty of putting everyone else ahead of me until I burn out—and that’s exactly why this conversation matters.
During a boudoir session, everything slows down. The noise fades. You breathe again. You’re reminded of who you are outside of your to-do list. No judgment, no expectations—just space to feel beautiful, confident, and cared for.
And let’s be real: when was the last time you felt pampered? When was the last time you looked in the mirror and loved what you saw?
This is the reset you didn’t know you needed.
“I’m Not Where I Want to Be Weight-Wise / I Don’t Fit the Media’s Idea of a Good Size.”
Let’s talk about the lie we’ve all been sold.
The “ideal” body type that shows up in ads? It’s naturally found in just 5% of American women. Five. Percent.
So why is everyone chasing a version of beauty that was never real to begin with?
This is your reminder: you don’t have to hit a goal weight before you get to feel confident. You don’t have to shrink yourself to be worthy of love—especially your own. Your body has carried you through life. It’s done hard things. It’s still here. That alone deserves to be celebrated.
If you do want to make changes—great! That’s your choice. But loving yourself now doesn’t cancel out your goals. In fact, it makes them more powerful. Book the boudoir session now to celebrate who you are today. Then book another one later to celebrate how far you’ve come.
Both versions of you are worthy.
“I Never Feel Sexy or Sensual Anymore, So a Boudoir Session Must Not Be for Me.”
Actually, this is the exact reason to book a boudoir session.
When life gets hectic—health, kids, career—our connection to our sensuality fades. It’s not gone, it’s just buried. And a session with Boudoir by Lynette is about bringing that version of you back into the light.
This isn’t about lingerie (unless you want it to be). This is about confidence. Power. Playfulness. Strength. Whether you show up in lace or a slouchy sweater, that spark? It’s still in there—and it deserves to be seen.
Clients walk into our Wenatchee studio nervous all the time. That’s normal. But they leave lit up, grounded, and more in love with themselves than they’ve been in years.
“A Boudoir Session is an Investment, and I Don’t Have All the Money Right Now.”
Totally fair—and completely workable. Yes, this is an investment. But so is your confidence. So is your mindset. So is your mental health.
Payment plans are available to make this more accessible. A session retainer secures your date, and the remaining balance can be paid ahead of time in smaller chunks. We also accept Affirm, AfterPay, and PayPal Credit—and for those needing something a little outside the box, in-studio financing is available through our partner Credee.
You don’t have to pay it all upfront. You just have to decide you’re worth it.
Interested in Booking Your Boudoir Session With Us?
If you’ve been making excuses, you’re not alone. But this is your reminder that you don’t need permission to take up space.
At Boudoir by Lynette, your experience will be private, empowering, and completely tailored to you. Our professional Wenatchee boudoir photography studio is built for women who are ready to rediscover their confidence—and finally see themselves the way they deserve.
Let’s do this—because no more excuses. You’re ready.
visit www.boudoirbylynette.com/scheduleboudoircall or visit www.boudoirbyLynette.com to learn more.
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